I desire to get married again eventually bc it’s a true culmination, but I’m not in a hurry bc other people are embarrassing… And you cannot escape that being married. When it’s just YOU, no one can fault you for your choice in a mate’s behavior. But when you’re “one” with another person, whatever they […]
1 Corinthians 8:6: “There is ONE God, the Father who is the ultimate source of all things and the goal of our lives. We exist for Him. And there is ONE Lord—Jesus the Anointed, the Liberating King; through Him all things were created, and by Him we are redeemed.” Wake up with The One. I […]
While watching the movie David, I realized that being the “black sheep” 🖤 is not a bad thing. 🤍 It means you trust your own discernment more than being led by a shepherd with the rest of the flock. You’re not a goat. You’re still in the flock. You’re just… different. And that’s not a […]
I know the difference. I know the difference between guilt for *actually* being the more destructive force in ending a relationship. Even though my actions were caused by being hurt and traumatized myself, I still feel the weight of how I was. I could have handled it better. That was a long time ago. I grew. […]
I went out last night dolled up to a more upscale venue in my area. Every time I go, I like to look nice. 😌 I got soooo many compliments!!!Visceral ones. Embodied ones. 🥹 This one lady was visibly stunned. She was a ticket-taker and floored about loving my ensemble & sparkle.✨ “Ah! Look at […]
Delete every single thing that reminds you who you never wanna be again. Anything that dims your light, chuck it. 🚮 Anything you don’t want your kids to be affected by, throw it into the fire. 🔥 You deserve more than anchoring yourself to artifacts that scream survival instead of sovereignty. That includes mementos from […]
Someone asked me, “What do you want for Christmas, Charity?” I thought for a second. “To be left alone. I don’t want anyone talking to me. I want the choice to pretend they don’t exist when I walk by without them taking it personally. I want them to speak when spoken to.” (I didn’t used […]
“Charity, why’d you get off social media?” Because I wanted to be a fountain, not a sponge. 😚💦
I’ve been pondering this deeply lately: My dad has friends who call him multiple times a day. I questioned him: “I don’t understand how you even talk to so and so. He’s stabbed you in the back numerous times.” He says, “Well, we just talk about sports a little bit.” I could *never* function this […]